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Weekly Adoption Shout Out #WASO Week 213

It’s WASO time again!

A warm WASO welcome to those of you joining us this week. And hasn’t it been a warm week? In our house the kids are struggling with the heat and trying to manage competitive feelings at sports day. What about in your family?

If you’ve blogged about your recent happenings then we want to know about it – come along and share your blog in the linky below…



Weekly Adoption Shout Out #WASO Week 169

Another Friday, another #WASO!Week 169

Hello again, and welcome back to the Weekly Adoption Shout Out. It’s week 169 can you believe it? We have a theme this week – don’t worry it’s optional so you don’t have to join in, but if you want a little inspiration or a starting point for your blog you could use ‘What Makes You Feel Good’.

As always, please do like, comment and share as many #WASO posts as you can. It’s a great boost to bloggers to see comments and shares, and it’s nice to see that readers can relate to and empathise with posts. Be sure to include the hashtag #WASO in your comments, tweets and Facebook posts too.

Because it’s a bank holiday weekend, we’ll be extending the linky so it’ll remain open an extra day. Go forth and link you lovely people….


Weekly Adoption Shout Out #WASO Week 161

It’s time again for the Weekly Adoption Shout Outwaso 161

We’re on an unscheduled Easter break at the moment, so we’ve no themes picked for you for this week or next. Instead please come and add your favourite, most popular, least popular, or best blog post of the week to the #WASO linky below.

We’ll do our best to share them but it would be great if you could share your favourites too. The linky form is below, but if you need a bit of help on how to join in, then check out this post.

 


Weekly Adoption Shout Out #WASO Week 158

Self care? Celebration? Difficult week? Whatever you’ve written about, come and share your post with us on #WASO!158

Did you join in last week with @craftikitty’s theme? This week there is no theme, and we’re looking forward to seeing what you’ve written about – whether it’s school, siblings, self care or scary times. 

Add your blog post to the linky below and share as many as you can on Twitter, Facebook or your other social networks. There are no don’ts, only do’s:

DO Please share your favourites on Facebook and Twitter with the hashtag #WASO.

DO Type in your blog url carefully, else it won’t work.
DO Comment on the blogs that link up, and let them know you found them through #WASO.
DO remember to add your own link, after reading the others.
DO check back as new blogs are linked throughout the weekend.
DO use the theme for inspiration, but remember it’s just a suggestion, and not compulsory.


Weekly Adoption Shout Out #WASO Week 153

That time again already? Friday means it’s time for the Weekly Adoption Shout Out!

#WASOWhat have you been up to this week? Write a post and tell us all about it.  There’s no theme this week – so we’ll be looking forward to hearing all your news, views and opinions this time. Next week is our next adoption #sorepoints, so the theme will be Personal Hygiene then.

As always, go forth and add your link, and please do share as many posts as you can.



Weekly Adoption Shout Out #WASO Week 119

It’s time for another Weekly Adoption Shout Out!!!

waso119Before we get started, can I just say a massive thank you to everyone who took part in our Adoption Sore Points Week last week, and all those who linked up to #WASO too. It was a great week in terms of awareness raising and wonderful to see so much support. We will be sharing as many of last week’s #WASO linked posts as we can (as well as this week’s), but please bear with us as it’s half term for us both so we’re not at our desks as much as usual.

This week, we’re theme free, so you can relax and just add your latest and best posts. The linky is below, and ready for you to add to…


Meet The Blogger – Single Adopter

It’s been a while since we ‘met’ any new bloggers here on The Adoption Social so we were thrilled when Single Adopter got in touch. If you’d like to feature here, do drop us a line so we can send you our set list of questions…

Quick 5 – In my life at the moment…

Book – Black by Design by Pauline Black

Music – Loving Sam Smith & John Legend (thanks @PedallingSolo for the recommendation)

TV programme – Just finished Blacklist now catching up on The Killing; Grey’s Anatomy is also a fave (McSteamy for those wondering J)

Food – Thai, Seabass, Halloumi & a weakness for chocolate

Pastime – getting back into running after a neck op, Pilates, Malbec, blogging, volunteering & preparing for Panel

Why did you start blogging about adoption?
To share my story: to hopefully inspire other prospective (single) adopters & for me to look back on to see, hopefully one day, how far I’ve come on this bumpy journey.

Where do you get your blogging inspiration from?
From everyday occurrences, challenges & emotions

Who is your favourite adoption blogger?
I’ve got 3: @NickKing for everyday wit; @NadjaSmit for being thought provoking; & @Mumdrah for her honesty

Tea/Gin?
Can I have both? Can’t beat an Earl Grey & but how I love a Hendricks

What do you think is your biggest source of support?
My family & my best friend, they’ve been & continue to be there every step of the way.

If you could take your children anywhere in the world to see something where would you go?
To see the animals in Africa in their natural habitat, OK it’s somewhere I’d love to go to too

What I hope I can give to my child/Children?
Security, love, laughter & inspiration, for them to become independent & happy in their own skin.

At the weekend I can mostly be found…
Drinking Earl Grey Tea, Skinny Latte’s & Red wine in no particular order (& definitely not at the same time); running around London Parks & the Thames; spending time with my nieces & friends.

 

The Things We Do 28/4/14

TheThingsWeDoIt’s time to share the things you do again in our linky. You have all week to share with us what you’ve been doing; what is working for you and your family.

 

Write it. Snap it. Post it. Link it. That simple.

Digger Diaries

Last time we had a few wonderful links, but this particular one is something close to home for me, as we struggle with toothbrushing on a twice daily basis. It’s a battle I’ve lost so many times that my 6 year old ended up having a tooth pulled out. If you have the same battle, check out Digger Diaries’ post.


Meet The Blogger – The Family of Five

Our new series ‘Meet The Blogger’ is proving popular amongst bloggers and readers alike. Today we meet Mrs Family of FiveFamilyfive

Quick 5 – In my life at the moment….

Book – It has to be the entire Shopahollic range by Sophie Kinsella, they’re all hilarious I couldn’t choose just one.

Music– I love all sorts from Barbra Streisand to Shaggy!

TV programme – ‘Girls’, its hilarious albeit a bit uncomfortable viewing at times.

Food – Chocolate and pasta, not together obviously!

Pastime – sleeping and blogging both of which I never get enough time for!

What is your biggest challenge as an adoptive parent?
It has to be school. Finding teachers that understand attachment and trauma is a huge challenge. The recent introduction of the new Pupil Premium Plus has filled me with hope that it can go some way to funding specialist training for schools to help them to understand in order to meet the needs of adopted children in school. We just need to persuade schools to spend some of it on that now!

Why did you start blogging about adoption?
Because I felt alone with my thoughts and feelings, none of my friends and family seemed to understand and I didn’t know any other adopters. I was convinced I couldn’t be the only one that was having a hard time, and I was right. Blogging opened me up to a whole new world of adopters that shared my feelings and fears. Now i blog to reach out to others that might also be feeling the way I felt and to let them know that they are not alone.

Tea/Gin?
Neither really, I’m more of an orange squash kinda gal, sometimes I do get all adventurous and add some lemonade to some fresh orange juice, outrageous I know!

When I look into the eyes of my child I see?
I see different things for each of my girls. When I look in to baby girls eyes I see confusion. She’s very confused about who she is, what happened to her and even whats going on in her life now. When I look in to middle girls eyes I see fear tinged with anger, she terrified of whats happened to her happening again and she’s understandably angry, but I don’t think she knows who to be angry with. Big girls eyes are filled with insecurity, she understands where she is and why and she knows what happened to her but the fear of it all falling apart like before haunts her.

What I hope I can give my children?
I hope to give them the futures they deserve, lives filled with happiness and love and to replenish that feeling of self worth that was stripped away from them.

If you are a blogger and want to take part in Meet The Blogger then drop us a line. We have a quick 5 questions to answer, then you pick 5 from a long list that you want to answer.

Challenge and Champion…

Welcome to The Adoption Social!

Challenge

We’ve been back from our Christmas break for a week now and in that time we’ve introduced a new linky, posted an anonymous, and somewhat challenging post on the approval process for adoptive parents, given you advice on how to use keywords in your blogging, brought you a special offer and review on training with Inspired Foundations and held our first Weekly Adoption Shout Out of 2014. What a week!

We want to take a few moments just to remind you all about what The Adoption Social is about.

Many of you know that this site started as an extension of the popular linky – The Weekly Adoption Shout Out (#WASO), which was, and remains a popular way to share posts from different people who are blogging about adoption. We’re proud that we’ve managed to attract a mix of adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, adoptees and birth family, along side professionals and training providers to #WASO, and we continue to see all of these groups of people sharing, comments and writing on all areas of The Adoption Social too.

We feel that it’s that mix of people who are ‘on the ground’, living daily with the challenges that adoption and trauma can bring that makes this website what it is.

We know we still have some way to go in offering a more balanced view – naturally as adoptive parents ourselves, most of our existing network has been other adoptive parents, but we know that other groups of people are becoming more interested. And we’re pleased about this because we know that learning from other people’s experiences has helped us personally. We really hope that wherever you are in adoption, you can take something useful away from our handy tips posts, our contributed blog posts, or just from reading other blogs that join in with our linkys.

But this post is more than just an explanation of what The Adoption Social is about, it’s a call for contributions:

Sometimes we post challenging pieces. We might post something controversial. But everything is real – it’s all from the people who live with adoption somehow in their lives, and is therefore, all valid. Please, please, if you agree or disagree – comment. Share your experiences. And if you feel strongly about a post – why not write your own – either to challenge it, or to champion it.

We want more contributors, more posts, more viewpoints, opinions and ideas. Whatever aspect of adoption you want to write about – we want it.

We’re happy to share strongly opinionated posts – perhaps you feel passionately about something and you just want to know that you’re not the only one feeling that way. 

Maybe you’ve written a poem that explains how you feel, perhaps you have a photo that says it all without words, or maybe you just want to write a piece in a different style to your normal blog. If so – send us a piece to post directly on the site – you can be anonymous, use a pseudonym, your twitter name or your real name.

We’re easy to get hold of – either email us at theadoptionsocial@gmail.com, use our ‘contact us’ form, send us a message through our Facebook page or through Twitter. If you’re not sure what to write about then just drop us a line.