Today Vicki from The Boy’s Behaviour shares a tip for finding some calm time with younger children through December…
I want to start by saying yes, I know it’s a bit early to be thinking about Christmas, but this one requires a bit of organisation and time hence the little bit of notice. And I was in a shop yesterday that was playing Christmas music – if they can do it, then so can I!
Christmas can be a difficult time for our children – lack of routine (or certainly a change), excitement, difficulty regulating feelings, missing birth family, preparing for school plays, the pressure of being good so Santa visits, along with a whole host of other reasons.
I want to share something that we do in our house during December that acknowledges Christmas every day, whilst allowing us to take 15 minutes out of the hectic schedule to sit and connect with our children.
Lot of us read everyday with our children anyway both for school and bedtime stories; this activity can be done in place of a bedtime story if you like, however and whenever you choose. And if nothing else, it creates a traditions – and I found that making some of our own traditions, together, has been important.
Each year I wrap up 24 Christmas themed books – I try to buy around four to six new books each year so there is a surprise for the children, and this allows me to remove those that they’ve grown out of. I’ve also found charity shops are wonderful for finding new festive books.
I buy two packs of identical stickers, and put a sticker on each wrapped book, and then the corresponding sticker on a slip of paper in their refillable advent calendar.
The books sit in a box in the living room and the children take turns to find and open the book each day, then we sit and I read to the children.
When we pack the decorations away after Christmas, the books get packed too until the next year.
We’ve done this for 3 years in a row now and it’s a lovely way to spend time with the children but more importantly that 15 minutes of sitting together, calmly, quietly, cuddling and breathing slowly helps my children chill out.
I can’t tell you what books we have, because they’re still packed away, but here’s a list of some of our favourite Wintery books that you might like to use to create your own readable advent calendar…some suitable for the very young…some suitable for primary age children…
- Stick Man by Julia Donaldson
- The Night Before Christmas by Clement C. Moore
- Father Christmas by Raymond Briggs
- Father Christmas Goes On Holiday by Raymond Briggs
- The Dinosaur That Pooped Christmas by Tom Fletcher and Dougie Poynter
- A Very Crabby Christmas (Cat in the Hat/Dr Seuss)
- Father Christmas Comes Up Trumps by Nicholas Allen
- Father Christmas Needs a Wee by Nicholas Allen
- Aliens Love Panta Claus by Claire Freedman
- The Smelly Sprout by Allan Plenderleith
- The Silly Satsuma by Allan Plenderleith
- The Santa Trap by Jonathan Emmett
- How Santa Really Works by Alan Snow
- Mr Men and the Night Before Christmas by Roger Hargreaves
- The Empty Stocking by Richard Curtis
- The Christmas Bear by Ian Whybrow
- Santa is Coming To <Our Town> by Steve Smallman…perhaps you could find your town?
- Zoe and Beans; Zoe’s Christmas List by Mick and Chloe Inkpen
- The Christmas Show by Rebecca Patterson
- The Very Snowy Christmas by Diana Hendry
- How Many Sleeps Until Christmas by Mark Sperring
- Dear Father Christmas by Alan Durant
- The Jolly Christmas Postman by Janet Ahlberg
- Dear Santa by Rod Campbell
It doesn’t have to be an costly thing either. I popped into The Works today, and there were plenty of inexpensive Christmas books – quite a few in their 4 for £5 selection too. It just takes a little time to find a nice selection.
Do you have any favourite Christmas books or stories? What other things do you do to calm the Christmas chaos?